I don't like getting ready for work. You know the process. You shower, fix your hair, put on make-up, get dressed (after finally deciding what to wear), grab your things, then commute. For me, the entire fiasco takes about two hours. Then, once you arrive at work, you have to transition into actually working. Almost three hours later, you're … [Read more...]
The Kids Are Not Alright
My favorite morning routine is to relax in the quiet with a mug of coffee and a non-fiction book. Two cups of coffee and two chapters later, I'm ready to take on the world. Today I poured my coffee, sat down in the family room chair and texted my friend, Erin. "I'm at about 20% this morning," the text read. I went on to tell her how I can't … [Read more...]
7 ways to battle the winter blahs
I don't know about you, but when the weather gets cold, it gets dark earlier and the sky is gray more days than not, I find myself getting a little bit down. Seasonal Affective Disorder, known as "seasonal depression" or "seasonal blues" is a health condition that occurs during seasonal transitions, typically starting in the fall and getting … [Read more...]
5 Important Reasons to Take Time Off
I was sitting in my hotel room in the Dominican Republic, looking out at the beautiful view of the resort's swimming pools and the ocean in the distance, and I was working. I was at the resort for my daughter's senior trip. Granted, she was off with dozens of her friends, so I wasn't really planning to spend the day with her, but that didn't … [Read more...]
Why You Need to Care for Yourself and How to Do It
The world is not always a happy place. You can look at the news on any given day and see stories about death, crime and abuse. It easy to let it bog you down, especially when you're in charge of covering such news. Journalists are nearly guaranteed to cover traumatic events—events that result in death or near death. More than 80 percent of … [Read more...]
It’s Normal to Feel Sad. Yes, Even for You.
I am not a doctor. I don’t even play one on TV. I am a social scientist. Most of you probably know or expect that since I’m a professor. What you may not know is that I study emotional trauma. Here’s the ugly truth. We’re all exposed to a lot of traumatic events, those which result in at least one person's death or a near-death experience. … [Read more...]
Reporting on Trauma Victims
The smell was the first thing I noticed when I sat down next to him on the wooden bench, which seemed formerly to have been a church pew. He smelled like grease from the factory where he worked, sweat, cigarettes, and something I can only describe as "dirt." He greeted me, and I responded with a "how are you doing?" A stupid question, given that we … [Read more...]
